Why this matters
When possible, say how much time or effort the request requires.
A smaller alternative can help, but never disguise a large request as a small one.
Hard to answer
“Can I pick your brain for a quick chat?”
Clearer
“Would you be open to a 10-minute call next week to answer one question about your transition from agency to in-house work?”
Pick the lowest-friction appropriate ask.
“Would you be open to a 10-minute call next week about one transition question? If a call is inconvenient, a one-line email reply would also help.”
The effort is visible and the alternative still serves the sender’s real goal.
Reusable pattern
Would you be open to [specific action]? It should take about [honest time estimate].
Why this advice?
This activity applies the principle “Honest effort expectations.” See the reasoning and source.
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